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This Is Not What I Signed Up For

I have been told that the job hunting process can become mundane and can leave you feeling defeated and hopeless on most days. The “process” begins with turning on the TV to watch the TODAY show, brewing a fresh cup of joe and clicking on all your bookmark tabs: Monster, Craigslist, Indeed, local listings, etc.

Bigstock-Spiral-Light-Bulb-Character-An-69348181You begin to browse the latest listings and can recite the standard ad posting word for word. I have been told it gets to the point that you don’t even read the ad any longer, as the average “bookkeeper” ad doesn’t tend to deviate much. There isn’t much creativity or uniqueness in a standard position. You get called in for the interview, and you pass with flying colors. You review the job description at the interview and scan through it with lightning speed. “Yay, blah, yep, standard. Got it. So where is the part about hours, vacation and holidays?”

At LWP we spent years and years with a communication expert to help us carefully craft the job descriptions and organization charts our members use to create their own versions, all in the spirit of “who's doing what to reach the goal” in their business. Last week I was on an LWP implementation call with a new team member serving in the role of the relationship and community outreach coordinator. The attorney requested that I go through her job description line item by line item with her, comparing it to the system for her job side by side to make certain she understood where in the system she could fulfill each responsibility. He wanted to make certain she understood how to carry out each of the actions within the job description, which we had carefully tweaked to make specific to his needs.

Since she has been in the marketing industry for a decade, I knew I had my work cut out for me. After 17 years of this, I’ve learned that the veteran employees can often be the most inflexible. She understands the power of nurturing relationships and showing up as a “GO Giver” everywhere you go. She truly was a superstar when it came to talking the talk. But when we broke down the job description and its implications for her day-to-day activities, she quickly became quiet. Her chiming in and interrupting with what she did at the last job plainly came to a standstill. We were meeting via Skype, but I could still see her entire body language shift. “Tammi, I want to check in,” I said. “I am noticing you leaned back from the screen. Your hands are no longer flopping with excitement. Your bubbly persona is in dire need of fix-o-flat. What’s up?”

“This isn’t what I signed up for. I am a marketer; this is all follow-up work,” Tammi scarcely peeped out. I could hear the fear of the possibility that the very words that left her lips may have just produced her walking papers. “Tammi, did you not read the job description before you took the job?” “I glanced at it,” she replied. “But I thought it was like every other job, boilerplate.” The direction of the conversation took a 2mm shift. We talked about how not following up with your prospects and customers is the same as filling up your bathtub without first putting the stopper in the drain! I always tell my attorneys, you’re better off staying home than wasting your time making contacts if someone on your team isn’t putting in the time (and heart) on the follow-up.

A study done by The Association of Sales Executives revealed that 81% of all sales happen on or after the fifth touch. And I have actually seen it much higher in the personal services industry (which we are); it is usually more like nine touches. This is especially true when you don’t have a fancy retail marketing budget, meaning your firm’s branding is probably all over the place. Solopreneurs sadly lose too much business because of one reason and one reason only – lack of follow-up. We discussed how the follow-up is NOT grunt work. It’s not admin work. It is enrollment. It is where you get to marry all your marketing genius and integrate it over and over again. If you shift your mind from a place of “task” to a place of “marketing” you will see how this IS not only your job, but the most important part of your job. She got it.

We created ways to make the follow-up creative, with personal connection and tracking and measuring. We made a game of it in a way where we would know when we reached the goal. “This is not what I signed up for” is what we hear from people, but usually only when it’s too far gone. Take the time to go through your team’s job description with your system of how to do what they are supposed to do. You will be surprised that most people don’t spend the time going through this piece, and it’s crucial to getting your team properly up to speed and trained. And the act of doing it with them is essential. The biggest piece that is getting glossed over is usually a mainline to why you may be struggling with lead generation, lead conversion and/or consistent cash flow.

If you're an estate planning attorney and want to learn more about Lawyers With Purpose check out the agenda for our Practice With Purpose Program from October 20nd-22nd in Phoenix, Arizona.  We still have a few seats left so register today to make sure you reserve your spot!

Molly L. Hall, Co-Founder, Lawyers with Purpose, LLC, and author of Don’t Be a Yes Chick: How to Stop Babysitting Your Boss, Transform Your Job and Work with a Dream Team Without Losing Your Sanity or Your Spirit in the Process.

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Congratulations to Andrew Jaloza, LWP Member Of The Month

What is the greatest success you’ve had since joining LWP?  

The two greatest successes I have had to date are 1)  witnessing the dropping of the shoulders as my clients experience the peace of mind that knowing that I have educated them about and assisted in solving their estate planning dilemma, and 2) having a couple who are financial advisors tell me that the reason they have retained me is that they get the feeling that I really care about what I am doing.  LWP has given me the tools to create a practice that is extremely gratifying.
 
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The legal/technical support of Aaron Miller and the coaching of my implementation coach Roz Drotar. As I have told them there is no way I could do this without them.   
 
How has being part of LWP impacted your team and your practice?
The systematic approach and the support of LWP has enable myself and my team to create a successful estate planning practice in a very short period of time.  The tools of LWP and my team, headed by my awesome right hand Deatra Austin have created a thriving Estate Planning Practice with Purpose in no time flat.  
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Conversations Are Crushing Your Future Revenue

I’m a stickler (PITA – aka "Pain In The A–") about providing a time and place for “conversations” in the workplace. I am all for connection, team building, sharing personal victories and working through where you are stuck in your life. I feel I am by nature a heart-centered person. I spend most of my free time on the yoga mat, hiking, camping or spending time with my dear friends and family. I’m all about connection and conversation. My Language of Appreciation is Quality Time and I lead with WHOO on the Strength Finder 2.0. However, I have strong convictions around limiting “conversation” during dedicated meeting and reporting times.

Bigstock-Close-up-Of-Hand-Crushing-Bank-44754049I’ve heard rumblings of the team saying, “She cuts me off mid- sentence sometimes,” or “She gets irritated easily during department meetings when we XXXXX.” When my director of operations shared some of this feedback with me recently while measuring the effectiveness of our department meetings, none of it surprised me. I feel exactly what they are feeling. I lead my department meetings like a boardroom meeting, always anchoring to the agenda and standards, story-stopping and data-seeking. I always hold the team members’ feet to the fire around consistent tracking, measuring and reporting versus stories about what it all does or doesn’t say.

Weekly team meetings, quarterly internal team retreats, unscheduled water cooler meet-ups, impromptu phone calls, team building events, etc. – ALL of these are excellent places for conversation and connection. But if you're allowing your weekly department meetings to be a place for coffee klatching, you will quickly find people dreading meetings because they are ineffective, and possibly useless. People thrive on structure and accountability. (And yes, you must hold separate department meetings even if you are a team of 1.5. HINT: Revisit The E-Myth.)

“How are things going? What’s occurred since our last call?”  That is how I started the monthly CCI call with a firm this past week. The attorney: “I’m not getting my reporting and have no idea what is working, what’s not working and where we stand with conversion rates right now. I know we are really, really busy, but I’m uncertain if any of this business is connected to revenue. I don’t know what is going on day in, day out because I am behind closed doors counseling, solving or convincing people of why we are worth our fees.” The client services coordinator instantly became defensive and spouted all the reasons why the reporting is or isn't occurring from her perspective. I really didn’t matter at that point; we were having a conversation about what we thought and felt was the state of the business. The reports weren’t doing the talking.

The attorney was really trying to communicate one simple thing with the story-stopping and desperate plea for consistent reporting. Business owners need (not necessarily want) the consistency of weekly meetings that are led and run by someone else. Every business owner needs weekly reporting and tracking so we know if we are shooting in the dark or aiming true north. Business owners are typically secretly walking around scared to death that today is the day “the other shoe will drop.”

You undeniably must create time and space in your workplace for conversation and connection. But if your weekly department meetings lack the unrelenting standards of a boardroom meeting and are instead weighed down with casual conversations, you can guarantee you're crushing your future revenue.

To learn more on how to effectively run your weekly department meetings, contact mhall@lawyerswithpurpose.com

Have you registered for our Practice With Purpose Program yet?  If you want to learn more about Lawyers With Purpose, register today and spend 2.5 day with us learning all you need to know about Asset Protection, Medicaid & VA.  Click here, check out the agenda, and register today!  

Molly L. Hall, Co-Founder, Lawyers with Purpose, LLC, and author of Don’t Be a Yes Chick: How to Stop Babysitting Your Boss, Transform Your Job and Work with a Dream Team Without Losing Your Sanity or Your Spirit in the Process.

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The Five Key Focusers – Why They REALLY Matter!

This week I was involved in a discussion between a 90-day-into-the-job Client Services Director, and the attorney/business owner.   The attorney voiced his deep frustration that the new CSC was not keeping the Five Key Focusers.  The CSC felt she had been tossed into the deep end of the pool with very little training, had inherited an extremely disorganized office from the departed and disgruntled CSC, and had worked hard to bring order to the firm, while simultaneously learning the processes and mastering the tools.

Both of them were tired, discouraged and felt unheard and under-appreciated. 

Does this sound familiar to you?

Bigstock-Hand-Symbol-That-Means-Five-45948397The interesting thing, from my perspective, is that they were both right.

I’ve been the tired and discouraged CSC, trying to find time to get everything done that needed to be done, with constant interruptions.   So I could totally relate to her story.

On the other hand, I understand what keeps the attorney from sleeping at night …

Let me tell you a true story …

Years back, my husband’s friend’s wife took the family checkbook and went shopping.  She was young (and perhaps a blonde – I never asked) and did not fully understand the concept of a checking account.  She thought that as long as she had checks, she could just write them.  She actually had no idea that you actually had to have money in the bank to cover the checks.  True story, I promise!

She wanted to surprise her husband by sprucing up their home, and “purchased” new carpet, flooring, drapes and decorative items. 

By the time her husband discovered what she had done, not only had she written out checks, but she had not documented the amounts nor identified to whom she had written the checks.   She simply wrote checks until she ran out.  It was a few days before her husband knew anything about her “surprise” so when he found out; it was too late to stop payments and cancel purchases, etc.

Back in the days before you could just log into your bank account online Peter, the friend, had no way to know his actual balance, nor to control or plan for the consequences.  It was a total mess and, as I understand it, seriously stressed their relationship for quite a while.

Am I trying to say that the CSC acted in the same way as this newlywed?  Not at all!  But she didn’t realize that by not capturing critical business data her boss, the attorney, feels that he has no way to do damage control or to ensure that her salary check will clear the bank at the end of the month.  He needs to know who is calling the firm, how they heard about the firm, and see the birds-eye view of what is going on with prospects, conversions and cash flow.  He must be able to depend upon her capturing this information, because he himself is not in a position to do so.  She is the only one in a position to be able to document this information, and if he cannot rely upon her attention to detail it will send him into a panic mode.

Which is exactly what happened!

In so many areas of life we tend to pay attention and care for urgent matters, too often at the expense of critical matters.  Yes, it’s urgent that the phones be answered.  It’s urgent that prospects receive quality and painstaking care.  It’s urgent that documents get drafted and clients get scheduled … but it is CRITICAL that the business side of the firm is tended and cared for.

If your firm is not documenting through the Five Key Focusers, or some other means, and you would like more information on how to take control and sleep better contact me at ncatale@lawyerswithpurpose.com.

If you aren't a Lawyers With Purpose member, but want to experience first-hand what we have to offer, join us October 20-22nd in Phoenix, AZ, for our Practice With Purpose Program.  Just click the link to review the agenda chalk full of all you need to know to run an efficient and effective estate/elder law practice.  

Nedra Catale – Coaching, Consulting & Implementation, Lawyers With Purpose

 

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Are You Showing Up?

You've heard the quote a million times – “Ninety percent of life is showing up.”  You may be saying “I show up every day.  I work my tail-feathers off.  I feel as though I am swimming upstream with cinder blocks tied around my ankles.  If only I could get an assistant on board.  I just need the phone to ring more.  I just need …”

Bigstock-Suitcase-on-luggage-conveyor-b-50936357“Showing up” is not about the day-to-day grind.  It’s not about “time to make the donuts.”  “Showing up” is about stepping out of your everyday world and stepping onto a plane, getting into a room with like-minded folks and taking the risk to close your firm for two and a half days when you have every reason in the world why you should not.  But you do it because you have faith that the very thing you need to get over the hump is waiting on the other end.

Hear firsthand from your colleagues on how this is more than true:

“The knowledge you will take away will be very beneficial to the success of your firm.” – Jessica K.

“It’s an amazing program!  Helps keep things focused and moving.  If you’re going to attend, bring the whole team so everyone can gain info & be empowered.” – Jordan S.

“It was outstanding!  Well worth the time and money to attend!  Why weren't you here?” – Frank M.

ACT by Friday, August 29th to get in on the Early Bird opportunities to support you with your trip to Phoenix:

  • $150 Airline Gift Card (2)
  • 1 Night stay at the event hotel (2)
  • $150 Food & Beverage voucher at the event hotel (1)

This is the last Practice Enhancement Retreat of 2014.  If you are on track for meeting annual goal, feel your team is running consistently on all cylinders, have a great work/family life balance and see no areas in need of growth, refinement & efficiency…CONGRATS!!!  

If that’s not the case…STOP waiting for “X” to be in place before you make the commitment to have the practice you know you’re close to creating.  There’s not a business owner that we know of who got over the hump magically, or on his or her own.  

Consider the possibility “X” is on the other side of the Practice Enhancement Retreat and you can still end 2014 with record numbers.  But you MUST show up to uncover the possibilities.

Contact Kyle Russ at kruss@lawyerswithpurpose to register today!

Molly L. Hall, Co-Founder, Lawyers with Purpose, LLC, and author of Don’t Be a Yes Chick: How to Stop Babysitting Your Boss, Transform Your Job and Work with a Dream Team Without Losing Your Sanity or Your Spirit in the Process. 

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Seriously, 128 Days until year end!?

Can you believe there are fewer days ahead than behind in the “New Year”? Wasn't it just 1 year ago where you were saying “NEXT year is going to be the red letter year!”? How’s that going so far?

Bigstock-Hourglass-6197878I recently read an article by Daily Mail UK that states we waste 69 minutes a day procrastinating, a study claims – three years of our adult life. And one in five of us waste more than two hours a day putting off what we should be doing. Read more: 

Why putting things off wastes 69 minutes a day and three years of your adult life

How long have you been putting off setting revenue goals? Creating, and operating weekly by, a marketing plan? Investing in getting your team properly trained and running on all cylinders?

TODAY is the day you will want to get your seat reserved for the LWP Tri-Annual Practice Enhancement Retreat…. the EARLY BIRD REGISTRATION ends Friday, August 29th. So, if you’re looking to reduce your costs, get your registration in to enter into a drawing for:

  • $150 Airline Gift Card (2)
  • 1 Night stay at the event hotel (2)
  • $150 Food & Beverage voucher at the event hotel (1)

To register today email Kyle Russ at kruss@lawyerswithpurpose.com.

Molly L. Hall, Co-Founder, Lawyers with Purpose, LLC, and author of Don’t Be a Yes Chick: How to Stop Babysitting Your Boss, Transform Your Job and Work with a Dream Team Without Losing Your Sanity or Your Spirit in the Process
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How’s Your Marketing Plan Working For You?

At LWP, whether we're on an implementation call or at our Tri-Annual Retreat – or serving elsewhere, we're getting questions about marketing. It seems to be the No. 1 concern. So, we created a bi-weekly marketing roundtable call to give you the space to ask questions or get your marketing needs met. Our last call was all about your marketing plan. Where do you get started? How do you get it started? These are areas we facilitate and talk about on the call, so I encourage you to show up – and participate! I promise, you’ll get something out of it if you do.

You may or may not even be serving in a marketing role in the firm, but it’s something you know you need to focus on, so let’s dig in. So often when I’m on implementation calls I hear that people will table their marketing plan review at their weekly team meeting. Or they have a weekly marketing meeting but they only look at the RMS reporting, not consistently at the marketing plan. So I want to get everyone back on track as we are headed into end of August, with only four months left after that, to make sure you reach your goal.

Bigstock-new-year---red-glossy-icon-65096560We have a theory at LWP that goes like this: “What gets measured, gets results!” So, if you’re not looking at your marketing plan weekly – start! Even if it’s blank, look at it. I can promise you that, if you just spend two hours a week to make progress on your marketing plan action items, you will increase your revenue. The best plans I’ve seen started right there – blank. But they eventually grew until every space was filled out and completed. And that didn’t happen overnight. Also, they almost all start with the attorney in the “WHO” (responsible for) section – but they eventually change to the RMS coordinator landing in the “WHO” section, and that’s when things really start rocking and rolling.

If you commit only two hours a week, I promise you – with time management and deciding as a team that, come hell or high water, you're going to dedicate time to your marketing plan – you WILL double your revenue. It just takes time, discipline and determination. One of the most common roadblocks I come across on implementation calls is apprehension about that term “marketing.” People tend to clam up a little. And if you have that feeling where you hear “marketing” and you get apprehensive and find yourself shying away from it, I challenge you to think of it differently. Because what you're actually doing is building and nurturing relationships by counseling your clients and advisors. Don’t even use the term “marketing” if it doesn’t sit well with you. Don’t let anxiety paralyze you when it comes to marketing. Make a mental shift and approach it in a way that works for you. Make it your own and interact with it in a way that feels like you are making a difference. Don't think about it like you are “selling” but rather like you are communicating your value in the marketplace.

So, with all that, let’s look at the three different areas on the marketing plan:

• Retail: This is anything you write a check for. It has a slower ROI and has to be consistent and constant, because consistency is the key to your retail marketing. This is ads in newspapers and radio spots, for example. The best thing you can do here is to create a budget. (We do have a call that addresses creating a budget too.) When creating your budget, be honest and realistic. If you only have $500 a month for the next six months, that’s OK. Figure out what you’re going to do with that money and do it consistently; don’t bother if it’s a one-shot deal. Members have said to me so many times, “I ran an ad and no one called or showed up.” The problem is not the page your ad appeared on or the circulation it’s in, it’s the consistency. If you want to brand yourself as the expert in your area, they have got to see you over and over again. Bottom line. In the long haul, your retail marketing does pay off, but you must be patient and stick to your budget. Quitting is a mistake. It takes people seeing you 5-7 times before they take action. Retail takes money and consistency for 6-12 months to work. It’s not a magic bullet. People get so frustrated with their efforts in retail marketing, but branding is important and drives your wholesale marketing. It may take some research to find out the best placement or circulation, but eventually you will identify your ideal market and client, and then you can put your marketing dollars towards that with confidence.

• Wholesale: This is all about your relationships. When starting out in marketing to build your referrals, wholesale is the bulk of your marketing efforts. It’s your blood, sweat and tears, your starting path. It drives business quicker. It’s your face-to-face synergy, strategy, and relationship-review meetings. It’s you showing up, being present to them and demonstrating the value you create. If you have unlimited time and little money, do this and the money will come! Then, once you get it going and you need to hire, LWP can help. The greatest resource you have in this area is your time, and the follow-up is crucial. It won’t be successful if the conversations that you're having don’t have a next action attached to them. I can’t stress that enough! Don’t look at it like it’s transactional, because if you do, I promise you will sound that way and they will feel it. I like to say it’s like you're dating them. You have to realize it takes time to build the relationship, much like dating. Show them that you're interested in a long-term “committed” relationship, and prove yourself! Get into their perspective and create power in partnership.

• Community: This really combines your wholesale and retail. It’s consistency and branding, but it’s not just you donating money. Everyone does that. What community means is bringing the wholesale and retail together and having your face attached to your name/brand, and getting involved. Have the entire team do a walkathon together. Do something like that every quarter. It doesn’t mean just throwing a check at a sponsorship, it means getting involved. It’s being in the community AND developing your relationships. It’s your FIRM participating, making it fun and, at the same time, letting your community see you.

So start bringing your marketing plan to your next team meeting. It may be a mess, it may be outdated and it may even be a blank one that you print from the website. But have it there. And be the firm advocate for making it a living document. This isn’t just another document you’ve got to bring into the room to make your team or marketing meeting longer or more difficult. It’s the revenue generator for your business, and you must have a conversation around it regularly and be focused and intentional with it. Declare who in the office is going to own it, and I strongly encourage you to assign someone other than the attorney because those are the plans that are the most successful.

Take it seriously for the months of September, October, November and December. And you only have to take it one step at a time. If you just take two hours a week to work on one item per quarter from either your wholesale, retail or community plan, it will make a huge impact on the revenue in your firm. So my challenge to you all is to send me your current marketing plan – rdrotar@lawyerswithpurpose.com. I’m happy to review it and give you feedback and really support you with implementation of your plan before the end of the year.

If you want to learn more about Lawyers With Purpose check out our Practice With Purpose Program in October.  Click here to look at the full agenda or contact Molly Hall for more information – mhall@lawyerswithpurpose.com

Roslyn Drotar – Coaching, Consulting & Implementation, Lawyers With Purpose

 

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Most Critical Strategies Around Today’s Estate Planning

Are you going to the most critical event that will change your estate planning, asset protection and elder law practice? The Asset Protection, Medicaid and VA Benefits Practice with Purpose Program October 20-22 in Phoenix, AZ.

LWP-Badge-Final-CMYKNational Medicaid and VA experts Dave Zumpano and Victoria Collier will be hosting this three day program and bringing dozens of attorneys together to discuss and solve the most critical elements and strategies around today's Asset Protection, Medicaid and VA needs of our clients. Click here now for the course outline and to register.

In this program we will provide solutions to the following:

ASSET PROTECTION:

  • Recent updates to asset protection and Medicaid compliant strategies.
  • The new asset protection strategies dominating the marketplace.
  • The death of DAPT'S, FLP'S, GRATS, GRUTS, and tax planning, and what's replaced them.
  • The five essential trusts and key drafting needs to serve 99.7% of clients.
  • Four "must have" drafting considerations and three "most forgotten" powers in trust.

MEDICAID:

  • Four steps to Medicaid eligibility for any client.
  • How to calculate the "breakeven" to ensure the proper filing date for the shortest penalty period.
  • Medicaid Qualifying Annuities: Hidden risks and how to properly disclose them to clients or protect from them.
  • The seven key factors to calculate any Medicaid case in seven minutes (or less!)
  • IRA's: Exemption versus taxes, how to calculate if IRA's should be liquidated or exempted in Medicaid and VA cases.

VETERANS' BENEFITS:

  • New fully developed claims process for veterans and widows.
  • Qualifying assisted living facilities as UME's.
  • Key choices to complete the physician affidavit for more timely approvals.
  • Update on three year look back for VA benefits.
  • The key reports no longer required for VA applications.
  • Dangers of annuities in VA benefits planning.
  • The effects of the Supreme Court decision on DOMA related to veterans benefits.

ALL PARTICIPANTS IN THIS SUMMIT WILL RECEIVE:

  • Asset Protection, Medicaid and VA Practice Kit which includes:
    • 50 state Medicaid Reference Resource Guide (summarized in 3 pages)
    • 50 state Estate Recovery Article and updated state by state summary.
    • Grantor Trust Summary and use tool.

Click here for a full outline of the program and to register for this event that has SOLD OUT the past 5 programs.  There are ONLY 25 seats available…DON’T WAIT TO REGISTER! 

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Everybody’s Swimming Upstream

During our weekly marketing meeting recently, our social media strategist shared that she was having problems getting information from one of our vendors; “They say they can’t give us access because….” Without skipping a beat, our CRM extraordinaire blurts out, “So sad, everybody’s swimming upstream.”  Living in a world of scarcity = if I give you access to X, then you may no longer need me.

Bigstock-Salmon-Jumping-Up-The-Brooks-F-54555656Once I got involved, it was like magic – we had the information we needed in less than 15 minutes. I couldn’t help but incessantly think about this over dinner and, honestly, well into the night. OK, I lost sleep over it. How could a vendor we are doing business with (paying) not give us what we are paying for? 

One of my favorite authors, Brené Brown, sums it up beautifully: “We each have a choice in any setting to step back and let go of the mind-set of scarcity. Once you let go of the scarcity mind-set, we discover the surprising truth of sufficiency. Sufficiency is an experience, a context we generate, a declaration, a knowing that there is enough and that we are enough.”

It got me thinking about the law firms I work with every day.  From the first implementation call, we are pumped to get on the team’s side because “here we are to save the day,” we have systems and processes to make your life so much easier and efficient. Over the past 17 years, fewer and fewer teams are stoked about the promise of systemization. They fear they will become irrelevant, that they will eventually be out of a job. They think, I’d rather swim upstream day in and day out than gamble with the possibility of becoming unnecessary.

We all want to be needed. Scarcity creeps in when it comes time to give up that special X that only you do or have.  But the honest truth is that people will continue to pay you over and over, and never think twice about it, if they feelsafe, heard and appreciated.  Integrity, compassion and character cannot be systemized or replaced – especially in the personal services industry.

So the next time you feel that bit of panic when someone asks you to systemize what you do or train so and so to do what you do or provide us with the passwords to X, dig deep. Check in, and if your integrity, compassion and character are in place, nothing but opportunity and growth is waiting on the horizon for you. If you lead with creating a safe environment where people feel heard and appreciated, you have nothing to worry about.  Those “job functions” are few and far between.

One of the first homework assignments we give to our members and their team is listenting to "The Attorney / Team Mindset To Create An Extraordinary Practice."  We highly recommend you carve out 1 hour of time – with your team – and give it a listen.  We promise, it WILL change your mindset day in and day out and the way you all communicatea nd function as a team moving forward.

If you want to learn more about Lawyers With Purpose join us at our Asset Protection, Medicaid & VA Practice With Purpose Program October 20-22nd in Phoenix, AZ.  Register now.  Seats are filling up quickly. If you are already a member and want to attend Practice With Purpose, contact Angela in Member Services at acrowther@lawyerswithpurpose.com

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Planning Anxiety

How many times have you found yourself anxious about change – no matter how big or how little – simply because the uncertainty ahead appears daunting? Many of us make up a colossal fact pattern in our heads with anticipated upset (emotionally, financially, organizationally, etc.)  involved in the final outcome. In my experience, when you take the plunge and dive into the deep end of the pool versus easing into the shallow end, you find it wasn’t as rattling as you expected. 

Bigstock-Self-Developement-Concept-55844918Two weeks leading up to heading east from Colorado to New York, I had an unnecessary amount of anxiety about making the “big trip.”  I was scripting an elaborate story about how hard it was going to be to walk into the family home of 43 years that my parents built when I entered this world (child #4 of 6). The last time I was there was in February, when my mom passed away in our family living room.  It was one heck of a year for 35 Cannas Court: Mom and dad both passed away eight months apart, leaving our family home for the final time.

Truth be told, the moment I walked into my folks' back yard – where the in-ground pool (encircled with my father’s master gardening) was traditionally overflowing with my nieces and nephews, parents and  siblings on any given Sunday afternoon – I instantly felt a calm come over me. I knew this was exactly where I needed to be. It felt very healing. I knew I was not only going to get through this, I could learn and grow from my time here.  I would be better for it. There would be therapy in helping my sisters pack up the home and get it ready for the escrow closing at the end of the month. Cutting my father's grass, though not as well as he would have, would help me to properly say goodbye. 

I quickly remembered the most accurate definition I think I’ve stumbled upon for the term  “anxiety.”  “The root of all anxiety comes from lack of information.” The only information I had in preparing for the trip was from everyone else’s perception. “Wow, that’s going to be really hard,” they told me. “I don’t know how you are going to get through packing up your childhood home.”  And many other renditions of the fear of the unknown, the fear of change and the fear of goodbye. 

I hear attorneys and team alike spout the workplace version of this  every day: “I am nervous to add another person to the bus, I don’t know how I will pay for them.” “If I let him go, everything is going to crumble.” “I really would love to X but I fear Y.”  And as we all know, yet must forever relearn and remember, every time we move forward we find that the dread was worse than the actual change. 

“When you take a deeper look at all the things that you fear, notice that fear is an emotion that exists only in regard to the future,” says Ariane De Bonvoisin, author of “The First 30 Days: Your Guide to Making Any Change Easier.” “Worry and anxiety come from imagining terrible scenarios that could occur in the future instead of focusing on what is actually happening in the present moment.”

Making a move (change) in life is absolutely daunting, especially for those who have lived in an area/situation self-imprisoned by the mental fear of the worst-case scenario. But making the actual move (change) is worth every step versus the alternative of living in the planning anxiety phase, the lack of information (guarantee) about the outcome. The breakthrough is always just on the other side of the breakdown.

Where in your life or practice are you living in planning anxiety?

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Molly L. Hall, Co-Founder, Lawyers with Purpose, LLC, and author of Don’t Be a Yes Chick: How to Stop Babysitting Your Boss, Transform Your Job and Work with a Dream Team Without Losing Your Sanity or Your Spirit in the Process.